Monday, July 6, 2009

His Needs, Her Needs

This may be the clearest, most useful book on relationships yet written. Books and schools give us knowledge. Wise sayings give us wisdom, This is the key to long lasting relationship. Willard Harley in his book "His Needs Her Needs" lists what he believes are the top 5 needs for Husbands and the top 5 needs for Wives.

Husbands Top Needs...
1. Sexual Fulfillment
2. Recreational Companionship
3. Physical Attractiveness of Spouse
4. Domestic Support
5. Admiration

Wives Top Needs...
1. Affection
2. Communication
3. Honesty and Openness
4. Financial Support
5. Family Commitment

I pretty much agree with the list. Most of us give what we want to get, rather than what our spouse needs. It needs to be better understood. Purchase this book at any Christian book store! =)